I’m sorry i don’t mean to meander about my personal problems here. I know it’s not the place for that. But i just don't know where else to turn. I found out my significant other has been cheating for two years. I threw him out and am leaving but i feel like i have Stockholm syndrome and feel like I’m the one ending it by leaving. He hasn’t expressed wanting to fix things, only says he isn’t sure what he wants and knows I won’t get over it and doesn't want to live miserable forever. He’s been verbally abusive and sometimes physically as well. Im just so lost and hurt. I feel like its somehow my fault, and even though I know I should leave am finding it difficult to let go. If you all can keep me in your prayers, that would mean the world to me. Thanks in advance, I cant see from the tears so I’ll just say wwg1wga.
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First off, kick his ass to the curb and don't look back! You don't deserve to be treated the way he treated you. Get rid of anything of his, so you don't have any reminders hanging around. Pick yourself up and do your own thing. Find things that make YOU happy and go do it!
I'd suggest signing up for some kickboxing, jiu jitsu, or any type of self defense classes. For one it will help you forget him and burn off any fear he has over you, and 2nd it will empower you to be your own person without the "need" to have a man in your life. It will help you feel less helpless and be more sure in yourself. And eventually you will find someone that is good for you, who will treat you like you deserve to be treated, with respect and love.