I can vouch for this as my wife was abused in every conceivable way as a child, and even now several decades later she has trouble remembering exact details of some things that happened to her, has anger issues, and suffers from depression. She will struggle with these things until the day she dies, and I hope every one of the bastards who did these things to her rot in hell for eternity.
There are so many abused that go on to abuse others. Pray for all, you really don’t want to wish hell on anyone, it’s for God to decide. Hell is an unimaginable torment that even the Lord Himself has said He wishes none to perish.
Please encourage her to write out her memories on good paper from beginning to end. Take them one at a time, no rush. Set the writing aside and then read it in a month or so. The pain she experiences will be less with the passage of time after writing the memory. This works better than talk therapy and is free!
The memories, once recalled never go away but the pain can diminish greatly.
I can vouch for this as my wife was abused in every conceivable way as a child, and even now several decades later she has trouble remembering exact details of some things that happened to her, has anger issues, and suffers from depression. She will struggle with these things until the day she dies, and I hope every one of the bastards who did these things to her rot in hell for eternity.
There are so many abused that go on to abuse others. Pray for all, you really don’t want to wish hell on anyone, it’s for God to decide. Hell is an unimaginable torment that even the Lord Himself has said He wishes none to perish.
God bless her, and you for being her rock
Please encourage her to write out her memories on good paper from beginning to end. Take them one at a time, no rush. Set the writing aside and then read it in a month or so. The pain she experiences will be less with the passage of time after writing the memory. This works better than talk therapy and is free!
The memories, once recalled never go away but the pain can diminish greatly.