Not being able to love and accept for who they are is the main reason for almost all problems people face. They build false identities in the hopes they can feel worthy enough, and these false identities latch on to anything - esp. pseudo intellectual crap.

The only way to love and accept oneself is to believe that we are a product of a loving creation with all the goodness built into us, and that by itself is worthy enough.

We have to remember that we are Human Beings, not Human Doings.