Candace Ownes said something that stuck with me. She said... "What is so good about being a victim?"
What is your opinion on this?
Why do human beings like being victims? Why do humans love talking about how someone is screwing them over?
When you point to examples of how the same thing happens to other people. They get mad at you.
My experience with people who consistently portray themselves as victims is that they think it absolves them of being responsible for their circumstances...it's always someone else's fault, which means they have someone else to blame. They also often view themselves as entirely harmless, even as they're making choices that, by proximity, create drama, conflict and havoc in others' lives.