Extended family I don't give a shit about, I haven't seen them ever since my mom died.. and they no longer want to see our family because we wanted her cremated and not buried (they're super religious catholics and it was my dad's decision).
It's my actual family that doesn't want to invite me, my brother is a Faucist and hates my guts now because I won't take the stab, and my brainwashed dad is the same way. His own son, that hurts. But I couldnt give a shit anymore, if they don't want to invite me over stupid bullshit, they can have fun, I'm not even going to bother reaching out anymore to them. They made their decision, I made mine.
Yeah, and if I was in your situation I would do the same thing. There’s just no reasoning with them right now and no way to convince them to just respect your decision for your own body. It drives me crazy.
I remember being a kid, and ALL of the family got together every holiday. It was so fun, and some of the best memories of my life. My gma passed away, and the family fought and now don’t ever get together. Same thing happened on my dads side. So now it’s just my parents and siblings that get together. I just don’t know what’s wrong with people. It’s one of the things that makes me think we are legitimately approaching end times. The Bible talks about how ppl’s hearts will go cold, and we are definitely witnessing that on a worldwide scale. The only thing we can do is go out of our way to keep love in our hearts now more than ever
I hear you, fren. I lost my mother this year the day after Easter. My father passed several years ago and I have no siblings. The extended family all came to my mother's funeral, but since then only one person has called me -- and only to brag about something their grandkid did -- and that was months ago. I feel your pain.
Extended family I don't give a shit about, I haven't seen them ever since my mom died.. and they no longer want to see our family because we wanted her cremated and not buried (they're super religious catholics and it was my dad's decision).
It's my actual family that doesn't want to invite me, my brother is a Faucist and hates my guts now because I won't take the stab, and my brainwashed dad is the same way. His own son, that hurts. But I couldnt give a shit anymore, if they don't want to invite me over stupid bullshit, they can have fun, I'm not even going to bother reaching out anymore to them. They made their decision, I made mine.
Yeah, and if I was in your situation I would do the same thing. There’s just no reasoning with them right now and no way to convince them to just respect your decision for your own body. It drives me crazy.
I remember being a kid, and ALL of the family got together every holiday. It was so fun, and some of the best memories of my life. My gma passed away, and the family fought and now don’t ever get together. Same thing happened on my dads side. So now it’s just my parents and siblings that get together. I just don’t know what’s wrong with people. It’s one of the things that makes me think we are legitimately approaching end times. The Bible talks about how ppl’s hearts will go cold, and we are definitely witnessing that on a worldwide scale. The only thing we can do is go out of our way to keep love in our hearts now more than ever
human nature, it’s far easier to flock with the masses than to stand strong on your own hill.
Eventually even family will wake from slumber
Amen
I hear you, fren. I lost my mother this year the day after Easter. My father passed several years ago and I have no siblings. The extended family all came to my mother's funeral, but since then only one person has called me -- and only to brag about something their grandkid did -- and that was months ago. I feel your pain.
I’m sorry, that’s heartbreaking.
Thanks, fren.
C'est la vie.
Time to make the friends who will be like and treat you as family. The Bible says this will happen in the last days.