Honestly, women have been picking up the slack men have neglected for a long time.
Personally, I don't think this should be their responsibility, but women like the champs they are do what needs to be done.
Men need to step up spiritually and lead. More and more women are leading the spiritual battles because so many of our male spiritual leadership has gotten soft. Men need an identity revival, myself included. Women, mothers and wives, you have a huge role in this.
Well i promise you "women mothers and wives" want to be just that and not the tough guy strutting to work and paying the bills and kicking literal ass. I promise you women want to be the soft emotional caring nurturing beings they are created to be. But men haven't actually been men and protected women, no, femininity for a long...long...long time. I promise you women have not felt safe and protected and able to be feminine instead of hard in a long...long...long time. Men are not dependable, for anything. Women must do what the man is doing AND be wife and mother. Pick a lane, men. Women can't be the man you are suppose to be, AND the woman mother wife you claim society needs.
Fight for us. Fight for your place. Learn how to communicate that to men without coming across as a way they ignore. Raise your kids to be men. Reject commercials, media that espouse men as the milktoast wimps. BE HEARD, because women right now are being heard as ones who can do everything and don't need men. Or they are fat and overweight and completely unappealing. Or both. So men "go their own way" or become players and shirk it all, because they're not needed.
Do you like your kids being raised by TV and daycare? Do you like your men feeling useless and emasculated? Or just checking out on life because it doesn't matter and they just have an overweight angry nag at home that hasn't slept with them in years.
This is a huge battle and everyone needs to engage. Many people have strong defenses against negativity, yet positive reinforcement will work wonders.
I am right there with you and am doing all those things. I was given a dream about this 30 years ago and I only now understand it. You're talking to someone who was a sailor mouthed tomboy lpst in the world and a lottle wild who met Jesus and now gets stopped on the street to be called Princess and complimented. I realized I am to be part of the return of Christian femininity, however reluctant I am aboit being an ambassador for it. Women could not be doing what they're doing npw if men were in their role. Our destruction began with removal the head of the family. The man, the husband, the father. This is foundational to society. Our men were attacked first, then they came for women, and now look what they're doing to our kids.
"men haven't actually been men and protected women, no, femininity for a long...long...long time. I promise you women have not felt safe and protected and able to be feminine instead of hard in a long...long...long time."
Give me some examples, to help understand what you're looking for. I assume physical security for starters. Elaborate that, and anything else.
Honestly, women have been picking up the slack men have neglected for a long time.
Personally, I don't think this should be their responsibility, but women like the champs they are do what needs to be done.
Men need to step up spiritually and lead. More and more women are leading the spiritual battles because so many of our male spiritual leadership has gotten soft. Men need an identity revival, myself included. Women, mothers and wives, you have a huge role in this.
Well i promise you "women mothers and wives" want to be just that and not the tough guy strutting to work and paying the bills and kicking literal ass. I promise you women want to be the soft emotional caring nurturing beings they are created to be. But men haven't actually been men and protected women, no, femininity for a long...long...long time. I promise you women have not felt safe and protected and able to be feminine instead of hard in a long...long...long time. Men are not dependable, for anything. Women must do what the man is doing AND be wife and mother. Pick a lane, men. Women can't be the man you are suppose to be, AND the woman mother wife you claim society needs.
Fight for us. Fight for your place. Learn how to communicate that to men without coming across as a way they ignore. Raise your kids to be men. Reject commercials, media that espouse men as the milktoast wimps. BE HEARD, because women right now are being heard as ones who can do everything and don't need men. Or they are fat and overweight and completely unappealing. Or both. So men "go their own way" or become players and shirk it all, because they're not needed.
Do you like your kids being raised by TV and daycare? Do you like your men feeling useless and emasculated? Or just checking out on life because it doesn't matter and they just have an overweight angry nag at home that hasn't slept with them in years.
This is a huge battle and everyone needs to engage. Many people have strong defenses against negativity, yet positive reinforcement will work wonders.
I am right there with you and am doing all those things. I was given a dream about this 30 years ago and I only now understand it. You're talking to someone who was a sailor mouthed tomboy lpst in the world and a lottle wild who met Jesus and now gets stopped on the street to be called Princess and complimented. I realized I am to be part of the return of Christian femininity, however reluctant I am aboit being an ambassador for it. Women could not be doing what they're doing npw if men were in their role. Our destruction began with removal the head of the family. The man, the husband, the father. This is foundational to society. Our men were attacked first, then they came for women, and now look what they're doing to our kids.
I love this, and you definitely will need to be able to take flak for it. So many churches are flipping roles.
For my edification, what do you mean by this:
"men haven't actually been men and protected women, no, femininity for a long...long...long time. I promise you women have not felt safe and protected and able to be feminine instead of hard in a long...long...long time."
Give me some examples, to help understand what you're looking for. I assume physical security for starters. Elaborate that, and anything else.
Physical security. Emotional security. Do men even know this exists? Financial security.
Please elaborate what you mean by physical security. I can guess but want to understand more clearly what men aren't doing now with this regard.
Also, emotional security, what does that even mean. Emotional openness? Explain.
Financial security is clear, although I think women want more of it than men do. Thanks :)
Yeah that's a very wide 2-way street. Both sides have been wounded so badly.