I just need some prayers for my marriage. Just had a loud long fight with my wife. Some stuff came out that cant be put back in. We have 3 kids masked in school for 1.5 years. I am nearing my precipice. I dont know what to do, she is stuck in the go with the flow it will end soon. I know it wont. Our problems go back further than covid, I can see the societal brainwashimg effecr her, I have pointed out instamces, there is no listening just emotions.
She is Christian, but I dont know how much she looks to God for answers. I pray daily, many days multiple times.
I dont know I am rambling just dont know where to go with this, too many details to discuss, married for over 20 years. Please pray for my family.
thank you, While my wife isnt pro vax, I truly believe without me she would have taken it. But she has not and will not allow our kids to get the vax. I dont need her to be as battle ready as I am, I just want her to understand my feelings and why they are so strong.
If she’s anti vax, especially with regard towards the kids, think thru the reason why and how that same basis of logic can be applied to the other points you have a concern over. Sometimes you have to compromise and pick your battles, and the kids in masks might be one of them as that’s far less important in the long run than when the jab pressure kicks up to another level, not to mention your sanity and relationship.
true, she seems to listen to me about the vax. I think deep down she hates the masks, but wont admit it. maybe her way of coping. I just dont see the area we live in ending masks in schools. I dont know how much longer I can allow this abuse of my kids.
Maybe this study from Florida will help:
https://townhall.com/tipsheet/scottmorefield/2021/06/15/a-group-of-parents-sent-their-kids-face-masks-to-a-lab-for-analysis-heres-what-they-found-n2591047
It might even make her more anti- mask than you... And share these stats with teachers and others who are open and care about children.. Quietly, but share them.
I hear you. You’re not alone!