I just need some prayers for my marriage. Just had a loud long fight with my wife. Some stuff came out that cant be put back in. We have 3 kids masked in school for 1.5 years. I am nearing my precipice. I dont know what to do, she is stuck in the go with the flow it will end soon. I know it wont. Our problems go back further than covid, I can see the societal brainwashimg effecr her, I have pointed out instamces, there is no listening just emotions.
She is Christian, but I dont know how much she looks to God for answers. I pray daily, many days multiple times.
I dont know I am rambling just dont know where to go with this, too many details to discuss, married for over 20 years. Please pray for my family.
If you have time, watch this video in full and mainly do one thing
LISTEN AND BE FULLY PRESENT WITH ALL SHE SAYS AND LET HER EMOTIONS DO NOT HARM YOU, BUT BE HEARD, SEEN AND FELT WITH AN OPEN HEART AND COMPASSION. Don't say anything, look her in the eyes and be fully present.
She will feel loved for the first time in her life. Women crave that! Women crave a strong centered man who is present in the storm who will not fight or run!
Yes, I am a lady pede and speak from experiene. Always after a sudden fight when my boy friend starts to listen and to be present, I instantly calm down, feel his love and come back to reason.
WE NEED STRONG MEN AND THEIR LOVE, PRESENCE AND COMPASSION. Because our emotions in stressing times drive us nuts and helpless.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jh-eKRGvmCg&t=3s
If you have not so much time, watch from timestamp 45:00 on.
May the Almighty God bless your marriage with love, peace and strength - every day even stronger.
If you have kids there is no such thing as divorce or living seperately. You are bonded together for life, due to payments, love for the kids, decision making etc.