I just need some prayers for my marriage. Just had a loud long fight with my wife. Some stuff came out that cant be put back in. We have 3 kids masked in school for 1.5 years. I am nearing my precipice. I dont know what to do, she is stuck in the go with the flow it will end soon. I know it wont. Our problems go back further than covid, I can see the societal brainwashimg effecr her, I have pointed out instamces, there is no listening just emotions.
She is Christian, but I dont know how much she looks to God for answers. I pray daily, many days multiple times.
I dont know I am rambling just dont know where to go with this, too many details to discuss, married for over 20 years. Please pray for my family.
After you have given her both some time to speak her mind, and time to formulate some questions of her own, ask her about dreams and hopes for the children. We mommas want to do what's right by them. Also, If you can convince her to at least pray with you about it and not do anything behind your back, you will have won at least half (if not more!) of the battle. There is much good advice here, but DagnyDocket's and test_pattern's stood out to me. Helping her find that red line may take some gentle information dropping, (like the masks sent to the lab info I posted below), but wait until she is both open and receptive.