I just need some prayers for my marriage. Just had a loud long fight with my wife. Some stuff came out that cant be put back in. We have 3 kids masked in school for 1.5 years. I am nearing my precipice. I dont know what to do, she is stuck in the go with the flow it will end soon. I know it wont. Our problems go back further than covid, I can see the societal brainwashimg effecr her, I have pointed out instamces, there is no listening just emotions.
She is Christian, but I dont know how much she looks to God for answers. I pray daily, many days multiple times.
I dont know I am rambling just dont know where to go with this, too many details to discuss, married for over 20 years. Please pray for my family.
Letter writing is a great way to overcome the emotional turmoil of in the moment disagreements. It allows you to be truthful as well as thoughtful without the emotion induced brain fog, accusatory declarations and defensive degradation.
I agree with the sleep on it before you give her the letter advise as well.
Ask her to write you a response and afterwords you can both discuss from a more enlightened platform.
It is the emotional responses that kill reasoned discussion in a marriage. I think anyone who has been married can understand this point.