I just need some prayers for my marriage. Just had a loud long fight with my wife. Some stuff came out that cant be put back in. We have 3 kids masked in school for 1.5 years. I am nearing my precipice. I dont know what to do, she is stuck in the go with the flow it will end soon. I know it wont. Our problems go back further than covid, I can see the societal brainwashimg effecr her, I have pointed out instamces, there is no listening just emotions.
She is Christian, but I dont know how much she looks to God for answers. I pray daily, many days multiple times.
I dont know I am rambling just dont know where to go with this, too many details to discuss, married for over 20 years. Please pray for my family.
I am a believer, my wife is Christian, but doesnt seem to think about or talk about God often. thank you for the group info.
Both my wife and I are ACBC counselors and we have worked with married couples going through very difficult times. We have see God work in marriages that we thought were headed for divorce, only to see Him work in them and create marriages that thrive. I pray He will work in your marriage as well.
thank you.
Let me know if you would like to discuss your situation and how you might discuss some options with your wife.
I followed Old Timer's advise to get things started. I sat with my wife apologized for things I said, I told her I didn't know how to fix it, but for her to know I wanted to fix it. She started to talk about not knowing what to do. I said we can't fix it now, let's not go into it, let's just know we want to fix it. She apologized. Well that was a nice band aid, now comes the work. Any suggestions are welcomed.