We're in the shit hole known as Brooklyn, NY. She got the "mandate" from her job, and instead of talking about what to do, she's folding like a cheap suit and is gonna get the goddamn shot.
Hell, she was all gung-ho initially when she got the memo. I told her don't give it, let them fire you then you sue them and win and you can retire (because she's already 67). But no, without even talking to me about any dangers, she's decided she's going to get it.
I've been sick of her retarded, narcissistic, idiotic bullshit for 30 years. I swear, she sometimes seems like she has the IQ of a fucking rock.
But goddamnit, why the fuck can't she just talk to me about it?
Good, hold the line.
Yeah, I agree with if people haven't had to deal with a narc before, they cannot imagine what it's like.
I say, because I'm dangerously out of shape, "my legs are shaking when I'm going down the stairs." "Oh yeah, how do you think I feel?"
If they've never had a person do that constantly, they don't know what it's like. Some bad emotional manipulation when I was a kid from both of them. "You're embarrassing your grandfather" when I was a kid playing baseball, with my dad as one of my "coaches."
If they have encountered something like that, but don't realize that it was some terrible abuse, then for them it's deep-seeded and they're better off for it.