We're in the shit hole known as Brooklyn, NY. She got the "mandate" from her job, and instead of talking about what to do, she's folding like a cheap suit and is gonna get the goddamn shot.
Hell, she was all gung-ho initially when she got the memo. I told her don't give it, let them fire you then you sue them and win and you can retire (because she's already 67). But no, without even talking to me about any dangers, she's decided she's going to get it.
I've been sick of her retarded, narcissistic, idiotic bullshit for 30 years. I swear, she sometimes seems like she has the IQ of a fucking rock.
But goddamnit, why the fuck can't she just talk to me about it?
I've been sick of her retarded, narcissistic, idiotic bullshit for 30 years. I swear, she sometimes seems like she has the IQ of a fucking rock.
WHAT!?!?
What the FUCK is wrong with you!?
My mother is like this. I'm sorry it fucking sucks.
I finally worked up the courage to cut her and ANYONE else who sided with her bullshit who was in my life, even other close family members some of whom were actually pretty nice to me, they just always sided with my narcissistic abusive mother.
What finally did it was when I realized this was MY fault. Not hers. I don't have to keep aweful people in my life. I have a responsibility to model how to maintain boundaries against shit people if I expect my country to do it with politicians, scammers, and fuckheads and pedophiles.
And if I'm not setting that strong boundary enough to protect me and those I love EVEN if I have to stop talking to "good people" ... it's my fault.
You can do it.
Maybe my solution isn't your solution. But you CAN find a solution for you that meets your principles and doesn't allow yourself to be hurt by her.
Kill her metaphorically as your mother in your mind. She's just a human.
Then love her as she is and for what she's done for you. Or make some decisions to put yourself in a place where you don't have to be a 30+ year old man who's "tired of their retarded, narcissistic mother".
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Or maybe you're just ranting because you're angry/sad in which case lol sorry for the unsolicited rant