Addicted to Fear
One likely reason why outright nonsensical countermeasures have been embraced is because fear paralyzes rational thinking. People who are terrified of dying from COVID cannot comprehend how ridiculous masking is because they cannot reason their way through the problem logically. What’s more, they don’t want to. As explained by McDonald, they’re not curious at all.
“This is my little diagnostic technique: Does the person express curiosity to know something different than what he or she knows right now? If the answer is no, I don't even go further with that person in conversation. It's absolutely pointless ...
Ambivalence is another word that we use in motivational interviewing. We assess for ambivalence. Is the person trying to hold two different, opposing positions at the same time? Because that leads to a resolution. If there's no ambivalence at all and there's no curiosity, I don't really know where you start. So, I'll ask, ‘What is it that you understand right now about what's happening?’
If I sense some ambivalence, if I sense some lack of confidence, then I'll ask a follow-up question. I'll say, ‘Are you curious? Are you interested in learning about some other information or some other viewpoints that you might not be aware of right now?’
And often, if I've got to that point, the person will say tentatively, ‘Yeah, maybe.’ If I get, on the other hand, ‘Absolutely not,’ or more of a condemnation, ‘What do you mean? Are you one of those anti-vaxxer hoaxers?’ Then I know I'm probably not going to really proceed very successfully, so I let up. I back off ... If someone's addicted to fear, I just wait and see if they're open and willing and ready to lose their addiction.”
In short, unless a person is open to new information, it doesn’t matter how many peer-reviewed studies you throw before them. Facts and data don’t matter if they don’t have curiosity or this ambivalence. As explained by McDonald, this is not a data war. We won that a long time ago. It’s a psychological war, and it really needs to be thought of that way.
They have to hit rock bottom and want the help for themselves, as cliche as that sounds. They have a hard shell of righteous superiority that must be pierced and cracked before they can even start. Do we have that kind if time? ;)
Absolutely, rock bottom is required. They need to exhaust every stupid belief they have, until the ground they were sure they were standing on ceases to exist.
They have beliefs about the correct solutions for all the problems in their lives. From mental to sexual. And until they play those solutions all the way out to complete and utter failure, they will stubbornly insist they are right.
One of my friends is absolutely insane. He can’t last long in bed or whatever, so he wants to cut his foreskin off to reduce sensitivity, rather than accept that he has mental problems. I tell him, that is not going to solve your problem because your problem is a psychosomatic disorder. Does he give that any consideration? Of course not, he just sends me some scientific studies conducted by Jews about the benefits of cutting off foreskin. In his world he’s the most intelligent person to ever walk the earth, and there’s no way anyone could possible know better than him. Can he accept that he’s a narcissist? No, of course not, that’s what other people are. Not even the evidence that he wants to cut his own dick off is enough to convince him that he’s fucking crazy. Can he even begin to contemplate an alternate truth about COVID? He has zero capacity for such considerations because every split second is focused on ‘my dick doesn’t reflect my imagination of myself’. Yikes! I’ve given up on that case.
Dr. McDonald pretty much says that some are lost forever, so we shouldn't waste our time on those people. Just focus on the ones who show curiosity and ambivalence towards the pro-vaxx narrative.