You are. It just takes some time to admit defeat. And the losers need to be slowly brought up to speed, no?

There's so much brainwashing that needs to be undone, I'm surprised people thought it would be quick like a band-aid. Think more like a cast or splinter, which needs time to mend the wound.

We need to be patient and in the mean time, get ourselves in order so we'll be ready to help when we are needed. (And we will be needed).