I commend you for staying firm to a no vax policy. You are much further ahead than many young parents that do not find out about the down side of vaxxines until it is too late. But, you are missing the much bigger picture here that goes way beyond just vaxxines. Who is going to really raise your child? Those early childhood years of development can never be regained once lost. I know you have a plan worked out, but please give an old fart a few moments to pass along some wisdom accumulated over many years of personal and professional experience.
As a health care provider and clinician for many years, the healthiest children I saw in my practice were those that were unvaxxed and were raised at home till they were school age. Exposing young children to the petri dish that is called daycare is not good for them and their developing immune systems - especially when they are infants and toddlers. In my experience, the children that were in day care seemed to always be sick. Parents often didn't think there is a problem and that their kid were fine and that being sick was just part of the normal process of childhood development. They were not seeing the situation from the perspective that I had where I could evaluate cross sections of different cohorts of children. IMO those children that were unvaxxed and stayed at home with at least one parent till they were ready to start school, then were home schooled in some manner, did not suffer from all the maladies that have sadly become commonplace with children today. I have been around long enough to know that none of this was normal.
Downsize. Do not let someone else raise your child. That includes child care and the public school system. The public schools stopped educating children years ago - it is not social justice indoctrination. If we and our children are going to survive this system designed to destroy and enslave us, than we must break away from it. It is very hard, but there is a way to make it on one income if you are determined to make it happen. I know people that do it every day. When your children reach school age there is homeschooling and there are churches that have started schools and others are doing co-opt education out of the mainstream system. But honestly, those first 5 to 6 years years of your child's life should be spent with you. My own mother did not reenter the work force until I started junior high and only because she was bored.
Do not give the reward and joys of your child's milestones to someone else to witness and experience. However, if you are insistent on living the American Dream, whatever the hell that is, you will sacrifice your children for it. What is the point of having two incomes when there is a huge expense for child care? Is it really because you think you can't make it or is it more a matter of keeping up your current lifestyle? You ask any parent that made the hard choice to stay home with their children and they will honestly tell you it was hard - but it was also the best decision they ever made. Having your child for a few hours in the evening and on the weekends does not cut it - especially when they are very young. This whole concept of paid child care is a modern phenomenon that is truly insane and designed to start the process of pulling your children away from you. Think about it. You are only being a part time parent with visitation while the system molds and indoctrinates your child. If you want your children to have your values then you must teach those values. You cannot pass that responsibility off to someone else that you think shares those values.
Reach out to other parents that have made the choice to keep their children at home. Break away from the system that desires to have your child. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I pray that you consider what I have said. I do mean well and I pray for your success. God bless.
I commend you for staying firm to a no vax policy. You are much further ahead than many young parents that do not find out about the down side of vaxxines until it is too late. But, you are missing the much bigger picture here that goes way beyond just vaxxines. Who is going to really raise your child? Those early childhood years of development can never be regained once lost. I know you have a plan worked out, but please give an old fart a few moments to pass along some wisdom accumulated over many years of personal and professional experience.
As a health care provider and clinician for many years, the healthiest children I saw in my practice were those that were unvaxxed and were raised at home till they were school age. Exposing young children to the petri dish that is called daycare is not good for them and their developing immune systems - especially when they are infants and toddlers. In my experience, the children that were in day care seemed to always be sick. Parents often didn't think there is a problem and that their kid were fine and that being sick was just part of the normal process of childhood development. They were not seeing the situation from the perspective that I had where I could evaluate cross sections of different cohorts of children. IMO those children that were unvaxxed and stayed at home with at least one parent till they were ready to start school, then were home schooled in some manner, did not suffer from all the maladies that have sadly become commonplace with children today. I have been around long enough to know that none of this was normal.
Downsize. Do not let someone else raise your child. That includes child care and the public school system. The public schools stopped educating children years ago - it is not social justice indoctrination. If we and our children are going to survive this system designed to destroy and enslave us, than we must break away from it. It is very hard, but there is a way to make it on one income if you are determined to make it happen. I know people that do it every day. When your children reach school age there is homeschooling and there are churches that have started schools and others are doing co-opt education out of the mainstream system. But honestly, those first 5 to 6 years years of your child's life should be spent with you. My own mother did not reenter the work force until I started junior high and only because she was bored.
Do not give the reward and joys of your child's milestones to someone else to witness and experience. However, if you are insistent on living the American Dream, whatever the hell that is, you will sacrifice your children for it. What is the point of having two incomes when there is a huge expense for child care? Is it really because you think you can't make it or is it more a matter of keeping up your current lifestyle? You ask any parent that made the hard choice to stay home with their children and they will honestly tell you it was hard - but it was also the best decision they ever made. Having your child for a few hours in the evening and on the weekends does not cut it - especially when they are very young. This whole concept of paid child care is a modern phenomenon that is truly insane and designed to start the process of pulling your children away from you. Think about it. You are only being a part time parent with visitation while the system molds and indoctrinates your child. If you want your children to have your values then you must teach those values. You cannot pass that responsibility off to someone else that you think shares those values.
Reach out to other parents that have made the choice to keep their children at home. Break away from the system that desires to have your child. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I pray that you consider what I have said. I do mean well and I pray for your success. God bless.