Glad you have a nice husband and/or father. My “Christian” father was a porn addict who lied to my mom about himself to entrap her in marriage thinking marrying would solve his porn addiction. It did not. He was a faithless cheater his whole life. Escalated to real affairs with women and I swear he was seeing prostitutes. So yes from my life experience where my mom was definitely NOT a feminist, my father had zero excuse. As another poster said here, it’s about instant gratification, no matter who gets hurt. Supreme selfishness is at work.
And for those of you here justifying your porn addictions here, why don’t you just cut to the chase and visit a brothel for the real thing? You might as well. It’s no different. Those are human beings you’re objectifying made in God’s image.
I can only imagine how screwed up someone would have to be to want to be a porn star. You should be helping these women and men out of these “careers” by sharing Jesus, not using them up more.
The antidote to pornography is life of prayer and yearning to return to days of innocence. When we were young and the world was full of hope and the person you do that w you should cherish to the marrow of their bones.
All the godless whores in the world can't touch what it means to love and be loved by the same and for the rest of this life.
Sounds like your mom destroyed your opinion of your dad by saying he had an addiction. I wonder, did she tell you how good she was in bed? Or did she just feel that it was justified to share only his flaws and private information. Sounds like she raised you to be a man hater after all, sad 🤔
Edit: Ahh a handshake account. Where did you come from to get here little handshake? Why don’t you head back to your safe space where your emotional rants make people feel guilty. Cause it’s not here
Also why do you assume my “rants” are emotional? Sounds like projection. 😂 Relaying anecdotal experience to make a point in a debate about morality and whether something is harmless vs harmful is not “emotional”.
And for the record, I know first hand that my father was a pervert with an addiction. He was starting to sexualize me in my preteens. Seeing if I would let him go further. I didn’t. I think the only thing that kept me from getting molested was him knowing my mother would murder him if she found out.
So you started this whole conversation out with the point that porn made him the way he is, but when it finally comes out….he’s just a creep and an asshole. Porn wasn’t the issue, he was.
And sorry, insults and random attacks on me don’t work. You say I need Jesus, but in the next breath try to laugh at me and insult me?
Of course he was the issue. That’s my entire point. People who use porn see others as objects to use. My dad was towards the extreme end but he is still a valid example of how someone needs more and more and more until not even that is enough. This is also what makes a cheater a cheater. Their wife or husband’s feelings don’t matter to them. Only their next fix does whether with porn or a lover. They may not be full sociopath levels but the addiction is still there as is the propensity to not care about other human beings, including those on film.
Hey I was laughing off YOUR attack. If my weak comeback was enough to hurt your feelings then I doubt you’d be able to handle Jesus using choice words like “brood of vipers”. Jesus wasn’t always nicey nicey. I stand bu my words, which were far kinder than you deserved.
I also find it ironic that you accuse me of man hating when I call Jesus my Lord and God my Father. I must’ve hit close to home for you to react that way. And I know why. You want to justify your sin. So you attack the messenger. You’re only attacking Jesus by attacking me. Please repent for your own sake. Jesus will cleanse you of your sin if you confess it rather than defend it.
BTW maybe you got confused on these boards when people refer to being red pilled. You are at a Q board, you see, not an MRA board. That means you will meet a lot of Christians here who won’t put up with your hatred. You are no better than the radical feminists. You hate and you divide. Jesus unites. “They want us divided”—remember? I pray you find a true Great Awakening in Jesus. And yes I will be praying for you even if you hate me for being female. Forgive and you will be forgiven.
Of course he was the issue! You keep moving the goalposts! You say cheaters aren’t the issue, and I show you a cheater. You then justify said cheaters actions by trying to blame shift his actions onto my mom. When I show you just how far gone he went, suddenly he’s not a valid example? He is though. My point is that people who view porn see others as objects to use. Then they become desensitized and need even more excitement. Not all will escalate to where my father went, but the principle remains the same. Once hooked on porn normal people won’t be enough anymore.
I laughed off your attack against me. My words were far kinder than you deserved. Jesus once called some folks a brood of vipers, so I’m being pretty tame by comparison. I stand by my words, because they were calling you out on your sin. You need to confess your sin to Jesus to be cleansed.
BTW maybe you’re confused by all the talk about red pills around here, but you are not on an MRA board. You are on a Q board. That means Christians here aren’t going to put up with your hatred. You MRA people are just as bad as the radical feminists. You hate and you divide like they do. “They want us divided”—remember? Jesus is the true unifier. You need Him. I pray you have a true Great Awakening with him. And I mean that. I will pray for you even though you don’t like me or this message. And I pray that whatever hurt that some woman inflicted on you will be healed.
No I’m not a man hater. My father was such a woman hater that he liked men a bit too much if you know what I mean. No woman ever made him happy or could.
There are just some people on the world who are sociopaths and don’t care who they hurt. They can’t feel anything and need to get bigger and bigger thrills just to feel something other than numbness.
I hope I didn’t just describe you, did I? If that description does match you then please ask God for healing. Either way it sounds like you need Jesus.
Glad you have a nice husband and/or father. My “Christian” father was a porn addict who lied to my mom about himself to entrap her in marriage thinking marrying would solve his porn addiction. It did not. He was a faithless cheater his whole life. Escalated to real affairs with women and I swear he was seeing prostitutes. So yes from my life experience where my mom was definitely NOT a feminist, my father had zero excuse. As another poster said here, it’s about instant gratification, no matter who gets hurt. Supreme selfishness is at work.
And for those of you here justifying your porn addictions here, why don’t you just cut to the chase and visit a brothel for the real thing? You might as well. It’s no different. Those are human beings you’re objectifying made in God’s image.
I can only imagine how screwed up someone would have to be to want to be a porn star. You should be helping these women and men out of these “careers” by sharing Jesus, not using them up more.
The antidote to pornography is life of prayer and yearning to return to days of innocence. When we were young and the world was full of hope and the person you do that w you should cherish to the marrow of their bones.
All the godless whores in the world can't touch what it means to love and be loved by the same and for the rest of this life.
Sounds like your mom destroyed your opinion of your dad by saying he had an addiction. I wonder, did she tell you how good she was in bed? Or did she just feel that it was justified to share only his flaws and private information. Sounds like she raised you to be a man hater after all, sad 🤔
Edit: Ahh a handshake account. Where did you come from to get here little handshake? Why don’t you head back to your safe space where your emotional rants make people feel guilty. Cause it’s not here
Also why do you assume my “rants” are emotional? Sounds like projection. 😂 Relaying anecdotal experience to make a point in a debate about morality and whether something is harmless vs harmful is not “emotional”.
And for the record, I know first hand that my father was a pervert with an addiction. He was starting to sexualize me in my preteens. Seeing if I would let him go further. I didn’t. I think the only thing that kept me from getting molested was him knowing my mother would murder him if she found out.
So you started this whole conversation out with the point that porn made him the way he is, but when it finally comes out….he’s just a creep and an asshole. Porn wasn’t the issue, he was.
And sorry, insults and random attacks on me don’t work. You say I need Jesus, but in the next breath try to laugh at me and insult me?
Of course he was the issue. That’s my entire point. People who use porn see others as objects to use. My dad was towards the extreme end but he is still a valid example of how someone needs more and more and more until not even that is enough. This is also what makes a cheater a cheater. Their wife or husband’s feelings don’t matter to them. Only their next fix does whether with porn or a lover. They may not be full sociopath levels but the addiction is still there as is the propensity to not care about other human beings, including those on film.
Hey I was laughing off YOUR attack. If my weak comeback was enough to hurt your feelings then I doubt you’d be able to handle Jesus using choice words like “brood of vipers”. Jesus wasn’t always nicey nicey. I stand bu my words, which were far kinder than you deserved.
I also find it ironic that you accuse me of man hating when I call Jesus my Lord and God my Father. I must’ve hit close to home for you to react that way. And I know why. You want to justify your sin. So you attack the messenger. You’re only attacking Jesus by attacking me. Please repent for your own sake. Jesus will cleanse you of your sin if you confess it rather than defend it.
BTW maybe you got confused on these boards when people refer to being red pilled. You are at a Q board, you see, not an MRA board. That means you will meet a lot of Christians here who won’t put up with your hatred. You are no better than the radical feminists. You hate and you divide. Jesus unites. “They want us divided”—remember? I pray you find a true Great Awakening in Jesus. And yes I will be praying for you even if you hate me for being female. Forgive and you will be forgiven.
Of course he was the issue! You keep moving the goalposts! You say cheaters aren’t the issue, and I show you a cheater. You then justify said cheaters actions by trying to blame shift his actions onto my mom. When I show you just how far gone he went, suddenly he’s not a valid example? He is though. My point is that people who view porn see others as objects to use. Then they become desensitized and need even more excitement. Not all will escalate to where my father went, but the principle remains the same. Once hooked on porn normal people won’t be enough anymore.
I laughed off your attack against me. My words were far kinder than you deserved. Jesus once called some folks a brood of vipers, so I’m being pretty tame by comparison. I stand by my words, because they were calling you out on your sin. You need to confess your sin to Jesus to be cleansed.
BTW maybe you’re confused by all the talk about red pills around here, but you are not on an MRA board. You are on a Q board. That means Christians here aren’t going to put up with your hatred. You MRA people are just as bad as the radical feminists. You hate and you divide like they do. “They want us divided”—remember? Jesus is the true unifier. You need Him. I pray you have a true Great Awakening with him. And I mean that. I will pray for you even though you don’t like me or this message. And I pray that whatever hurt that some woman inflicted on you will be healed.
No I’m not a man hater. My father was such a woman hater that he liked men a bit too much if you know what I mean. No woman ever made him happy or could.
There are just some people on the world who are sociopaths and don’t care who they hurt. They can’t feel anything and need to get bigger and bigger thrills just to feel something other than numbness.
I hope I didn’t just describe you, did I? If that description does match you then please ask God for healing. Either way it sounds like you need Jesus.