I have a friend (female) that I rarely see anymore... her hair has been cut like this most of her life. It is just SO unattractive for a woman to look like this. My friend, last time I talked to her, had her oldest daughter avoiding her like the plague and she is on the verge of divorcing her husband because (I guess) he doesn't help and give her attention like she wants. It's sad. They've been together for a couple decades and she is probably going to ditch him to win..... but she will likely grow old alone and he will likely remarry. Her ultimate power move is going to hurt her, not him.