Sure I get that but I don't think I implied it was always possible either, for those that have a child with severe medical issues or something not as common I can agree to what you're saying but I'm just saying for the average person I think it's not too far out of reach.
This comes with an assumption that all people who are going through hard times have poor spending habits/bad vices, which isn't always the case.
So no, I don't think it's always going to be plausible.
Sure I get that but I don't think I implied it was always possible either, for those that have a child with severe medical issues or something not as common I can agree to what you're saying but I'm just saying for the average person I think it's not too far out of reach.
So, in essence, for the average person, it's out of reach.
That shouldn't be the case. That's why I'm on the other side of this discussion.