how close we came to extermination
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I did it because we found out after my grandparents passed, my grandfather wasn't my dad's biological father. It messed with my head because you have an identity predicated on what you have been told your whole life and 'poof' - gone.
The suspicion is that the man that was my dad's biological father was killed in WWII There was a family story that my grandmother has been involved with a pilot before meeting my grandfather. There are a couple of pictures if her with a military pilot. It did not change the fact that the man that was Grandpa to me was a wonderful man - the fact he stepped up to raise a child that was not his own spoke volumes about his character. (At the time, I remember reading that there was something like 25% of the children born during the war years were not raised by the biological father.) But he stressed family ties very heavily and that was a source of confusion. I don't know if that was because they kept up the 'secret ' for so long that it became too hard to reveal the truth or whatever. We will never know. And in the end,, you are correct in that it doesn't change anything but it takes time to process.
My wife had the test because there were some rumors in her family that one of the distant relatives was a Native American. She has some features that some people think she is part Asian. The test revealed no hint of being part Asian or part Native American. Apparently, some people with German ancestry, which applies to her, can show features that have some Native American qualities; perhaps Liawatha is part German :) I later read that the genetic sites don't even have Native American DNA for reference; they use Central American DNA as a surrogate, assuming it has some of the same DNA as Native Americans.