I can say she's your ex for a reason. Not everyone has a poor relationship and not everyone has a good relationship. Some people find they're incompatible after a few years of marriage and living together, others find out they've been cheated on the whole time.
With something this explosive, this dreadful, you might have to grab them by the collar, shaking them a bit, pleading, to get tested. You'll need to teach your kids about the evils in the world. Do it slower than you would an adult, but they need to know.
I can say she's your ex for a reason. Not everyone has a poor relationship and not everyone has a good relationship. Some people find they're incompatible after a few years of marriage and living together, others find out they've been cheated on the whole time.
With something this explosive, this dreadful, you might have to grab them by the collar, shaking them a bit, pleading, to get tested. You'll need to teach your kids about the evils in the world. Do it slower than you would an adult, but they need to know.