I've chosen to take my stand. No one moves me without evidence and even still if their evidence does not hold to scrutiny, I just remind them it's their opinion unless they can produce hard evidence. Of course they hate that response, but I'm not going to hang rationality just to appease their emotionally charged feelings.
Extend this thought process to devolution concluding. What's the worst these babies are going to do? Burn down more black owned businesses? The derp state goons never came to the suburbs and we all know what happens when they do. By no means is that what I want. I just simply no longer care about their reaction to the truth. In the end it doesn't matter. And if we have to settle this in the streets, then so be it.
At this point with your friends and family just stick to hard evidence and remind yourself their opinions are just that and nothing more. Their wrong perspective does not magically manifest especially of you keep yours aligned to truth. If they don't have evidence, they're simply wrong and all they are saying is nonsense.
Normies are powerless in their own lives and they are useless in general society. I expect very little from them once the truth come out.