Yeah we're two widows and engaged to be married with young kids. We've agreed to not talk about these things because she gets too reeeeeeeeeee about it. So you frens are all I've got. Hate to see it tear your family apart like it has to so many. God bless you and protect you. I just need to take one of my pieces of advice and take a rest from this for a bit, and to remember that I have no control over it. This lady has been a blessing to me and my son and I'd hate to lose her and her boys. But in the end I will do what is best to protect my son and I will not change who I am; moral wise, belief system, or my faith.