All of us have personal habits or experiences that should be kept personal. Blabbing out stuff you have done is not always appropriate and could have negative consequences on those who see you as a role model. I'm not talking about being a hippocrit and lying about your past. I'm taking about things that aren't in good taste. I dated a woman who didn't hold back. She blabbed out some admissions I had not inquired about that led to my recognizing what a freak she had been. I ran away and thanked God for opening my eyes. Funny thing, with open eyes, I discovered Q during the first month of postings.