Months ago, when the whole jab thing started, my mother and father in law were determined to get it, because TV told them so.
I advised them not to, and that they are going to damage themselves, multiple times, I event told them about how I ended paralised for a month as a kid when I received vaccine back then... Nothing... They went and did it. 3 times. So after that I basically told them I don't want to talk about it anymore.
Now my father in law, months later, as expected, got a serious pneumonia, lost ability to walk, or even sit in bed, lost control of his bowel movements, and ability to talk, so we are taking care of him the best we could trying not to loose our minds in the process... Showing up with a smile, trying to make their life easier, paying for bills, paying for medication, paying for diapers, and food, clipping his toe nails, cutting his hair and beard, changing diapers...
So on top of all that, wife and I were "politely asked" last night to respect my brother in law more, since he feels that "a lot is depending on him". Same brother in law who was organising excursions with the rest of the family to go for a group testing, to see what might be wrong with them... The same guy who cannot lift a bed matrace without having 2 people help him, while wife and I are the ones carrying his immobilised father around... Same guys who can buy both wife and me with his salary but is paying way less for their bad decisions, and the first thing he came to us with was "how are we going to divide the expanses"...
So I snapped, and yelled my lungs off. So my brother in laws, hypochondriac ass was insisting on them getting jabbed. They did it and we are stoically dealing with the damage made, because they are our parents. And I am accused that I am not "respecting" him enough by not being knowledgeable in ins and outs of hospitals and doctors and procedures and not getting the ideas "first" about where to drag the patient, next...
I am not proud of myself, my friends. I did not have "I told you so" moment at any point there. But I think that even the neighbors in next building heard about the boundaries that they will never be allowed to fucking cross with me...
The messed up thing is that I feel like a piece of shit, now, for allowing myself to go full dark mode.
I think it’s a good idea that you did what you did. If you would not put your foot down, and put a very firm boundary, they would’ve just kept pushing you and pushing you and pushing you… And worse could’ve happened.
Now that you’ve gotten everything off your chest by yelling, I suggest writing a clear and concise letter, laying out all of the issues you just told us. In detail.
It’s when things are in black-and-white, and written down on a piece of paper, that a person can go back to that letter U or the other, and refer to it. There’s no weaseling around topics, or anyone saying that you were angry when you had your outburst. Rightfully so you should be angry. Your response is appropriate to your situation. Don’t let anybody tell you any different.
But I do highly recommend getting your thoughts on paper, in advance, as things begin to deteriorate for your family member. The person who is pushing you, who has more finances in you, and doesn’t want to take any responsibility for what has happened, needs to be put on notice.
Coming up with a schedule in writing, finances in writing, and putting everything in black-and-white should help smooth things over, but also publish or perish.! If this other person has a better financial situation, then they should pay more than you. You should not feel bad about asking them to do that. Especially if it’s their own father.
You are in this thing by marriage, I shouldn’t have to feel the burden of financial responsibility for your wife’s father or her brothers father.
Do it… You’ll be glad that you did. Too many words are spoken these days. Writing things down, and having them in black and white makes a huge difference in the world.
In this video Reinette Senum and Dr. Tenpenny discuss how she informed anyone who took the shot that she warned them and not to expect any help from her when they get sick. https://www.bitchute.com/video/fhhNpDM9Ahwf/
I think you were fine and within your limits getting angry.