Q said we would be the saviors of the world. My son is conservative but he has no clue what Q really has been, what we have learned, how much sleep we've lost, how many tears we have cried, how many panic attacks we've had as more has made sense in the broader picture. The soldiers from Vietnam got shit on so bad. I pray we are at least acknowledged as the 5th column that performed the assymetric warfare for the White Hats, researched where it was less detectable than in government systems, refused to back down, took all the name calling, censorship, ridicule, etc....AND WE NEVER BACKED DOWN!
ONE DAY I HOPE MY SON KNOWS WHAT WE HAVE REALLY DONE AND SACRIFICED FOR THE FUTURE OF HUMANITY.
WWG1WGA
UPDATE 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸He has agreed to go to counseling. I'll be picking a Christian one. God is good. My son is a good man. He is just blinded by cynicism and my hope and faith seem like delusion to him. GOD BLESS YOU PEDES! YOUR PRAYERS WORKED ALMOST INSTANTLY!!!
I have tried so many times, sometimes its fine, he just won't let up if he disagrees with me. I get it. He's just like me. I just see that all his opinions about my life are colored by the fact that I've been a qtard for 5 years so obviously I'm not capable of any good decisions, no matter how detailed, thought out, etc. He doesn't even ask. He just immediately assumes I am missing a lugnut so the remainder is tainted. Q and my commitment are the CORE. I've tried everything. I keep my distance and keep praying. He is in GOD'S hands now. Tough love but it's love nonetheless. Thanks pede.
Then don't speak about Q or politics.
Talk about something he enjoys and is proud of. Talk about his work and learn the name of his boss and his best friend at work so you'll have something to ask him about during another visit. If he's renovating his house or even doing minor DIY fixes then ask him about how long it took and how it turned out. When your relationship repairs, you'll be able to ask him for advice if you need to fix something similar. DO NOT give him advice unless he asks. Just try to learn about what he is doing and how he feels.
I recommend you don't keep your distance.
Visit him. Be totally vulnerable. This isn't about you.
Even if you must drive across two states to visit him for an hour then do it. He'll know why you're there even if he doesn't acknowledge it. Make up a silly and obvious excuse if you want a laugh.
If you allow time to pass then your bonds will be lost and you'll have nothing to discuss. You won't know to ask about his friends or his workmates or his boss or his worries or his hopes or if he finished re-tiling his bathroom. You won't know when his wife becomes pregnant and he won't call you to ask questions about how to be a parent.
Your son doesn't need your arguments or stress or advice. The time for guidance has come and gone unless he asks for it. You only need to be there. You are not currently there.
That's my advice.
I really appreciate it. I don't talk about Q, haven't in several years. The damage is done. He believed me when we date fagged earlier. He thinks I can't face reality. I have done everything I know to do. I even offered to go to counseling together. I just refuse to be belittled. If I can stand up to the world and not my own child, what good am I?
We both know you haven't done everything you know how to do.
We both know you refuse to do everything you know how to do.
You are more protective of yourself than you are of your son.
You will never know your grandchildren.
So, you think I should take the abuse, huh? That's bullshit. I am setting an example of strength through adversity and oppression. Never back down when someone is abusing you. That's stupid. What's next? I know when I'm wrong and willingly admit is and correct course. I can't fix him. He has to fix himself. Of course I'll know my grandkids. He's a good.man and will eventually wake up. Jeez. Fatalistic?
What? Wow. Judge much? Shill.