My mom went to Heaven on 2/10 of this year and my dad is struggling. We have strong faith in God and Jesus. When my sister died in 1995 my parents and I tried one session of grief therapy and it was very sad and dismal. The hospice people that cared for mom have called him to see if he needs counseling but he doesn’t want to be in a group setting. I think he’ll be okay but should I try to reach out to other widowers? How would I do that?
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My father put her photo frame on her spot and talked to her throughout the day. I even did it when I came over. She’s an angel and looking over you all. She’s there spiritually. We talked about her often and looked at photo albums. It’s not something to get over, but to live with. When I would ask what he wanted for dinner, he would say I don’t know. Then I would ask what would mom want? He would tell me, and that’s what we would have. One night the lights flickered. We laughed. I said what is Mom trying to tell us? Dad said, it’s time to take the trash out. My point being, this isn’t a time to forget....it’s a time to remember and celebrate.
This is so sweet. I wish I had done this with my Dad. God bless you!
Dear Lord, please help FellowTrumpster's Dad and all who loved FellowTrumpster's Mom. Comfort them as only you can. Send them the people, resources, & ideas for dealing with their loss that can be as simple as a picture of the loved one you can talk to. Bless Chandler15 for offering such a wonderful idea. Strengthen them all with your presence, draw them to your promise of Salvation in Christ Jesus, and fill them with your peace. In Jesus' Holy name, Amen.