And one last thing.

What you are saying.

Let's say I go to the gym minding my own business. I get on one of the pieces of equipment.

A white women gets on the piece of equipment next to me. Lets say we see something on the TV at the gym that makes us both laugh.

So we start to talk with each other.

The next time I go back to the gym We see each other again and start to talk more.

We repeat this over and over again. So lets say two months down the road and we know each other.

Let's say we both detect physical and mental attraction with each other.

Are you NOW SAYING that I am suppose to RESIST my attraction both physically and mentally.

And I am not suppose to ask her out?????

So you are telling me. That I am suppose to pass up this opportunity??? That God will hate me because I found someone I am both physically and mentally attracted to???

Let me ask you brother.

If this situation happens between a black man and a white woman. HOW REALISTIC DO YOU THINK THEY WILL JUST SAY NO!!!