I was going to go in to a whole book here about it but decided not to. So I'll just say this,

I grew up around them, I was one. Once you leave that environment, you accept it for the monumental learning experience it was. But you will never go back, never associate with one anymore, even if it is family. That is too much weight to have for such a short life. These are not kids anymore, they are full grown ass legal adults and those grown ass legal adults had kids that are now grown ass legal adults.

I am grateful for gaining the ability on how to spot these people from across the planet because it prevents me from ever having to deal with that again.