Yeah but we have more power. The more of us that understand and hold the belief in our core that you can only govern the consent the more challenges abusers end up facing before they crack and lose their grip. I mean the outcome could put individuals in a dangerous spot so that is obviously the thing to best avoid but domestic abuse really is a serious problem. There's two options, stay and continued to be battered or show them with the evolved strength that they will never win and eventually they will quit or kill you. But we also have the secret weapon of the holy ghost which is why I still believe is the only reason we are alive.