This is something I have realized after many years of spiritual struggle.

Take a cylinder. Remove all light sources, shading and perspective. Then have one group look at it exactly on its long axis (the round end). It appears to be a circle. Have another group look at it exactly perpendicular to the long axis. It appears to be a rectangle. Without the nuances and subtleties, shading and depth, one group claims it is a circle. One group is adamant it is a rectangle. But they are both looking at the same object. How can a circle be a square?

If it isn't obvious, my point is that this post is an incredibly stupid argument. There is no contradiction between different perspectives of God, and nobody is 100% right. If you think you are right, then as Q says...expand your thinking. Add some perspective and another dimension, and you realize both of you are looking at the same cylinder.