The number of naturally handsome and beautiful people is minimal. It is what is within you that makes you appealing. Someone who is thoughtful, nice, kind is worth more than beauty. Beauty is superficial. “Handsome is, as handsome does” is truly correct. If you want to be recognized, display confidence by being proud of your actions-actions speak louder than words. With actions that are not self serving, you develop confidence. No one is perfect in life, but facial expressions are important. I am sorry if anyone has made you feel unworthy or ugly. Many times people do or say things that are hurtful, including family.