That's part. The other part is the matriarchal crabs in a bucket mentality. When a black man makes it out and doesnt follow the thug life route. The first people running their mouths making fun of them are their own community. Those that are trying to get out get shit on by the others in the community. When they do get out those same community members running their mouths come back to him with palms open saying, "hey help out the community and share some of your success with us." That same man is the man that will try to be a part of his child's life only for the degenerate slore that is the wife to use the state against him to score alimony, child support, and government freebies. Use the police to keep the father out of the home. It started in the black community and slowly it's making it's way every where else. Why else are single mothers celebrated?