fertility is so low especially among wealthy non black families that demand for adopting non black babies far surpasses "supply"... Demand for adopting black babies is much lower though. #RacistFacts

the demand is so great often times a mother who isn't a drug whore can get paid quite a bit by the future prospective parents to take care of herself while pregnant if she agrees to give the child up for adoption before birth. There is rarely any concrete agreement in place either - she is free to change her mind and walk away with her baby and the money... but she opens herself up to getting sued.

I lived thru this firsthand as a dumbass twentysomething who impregnated a woman i shouldnt have. She said she would give the child up for adoption and I was in no place to argue or support a child at the time so i let it go. later i found out she decided to keep our child (after accepting money from somebody) and now she wont respond to my attempts at contact. cant say i blame her but im in a better spot now with a stable home and good income and really feel like shit about not being able to meet my daughter... especially feel bad for my legitimate daughter who cant meet her big sister.