People I know who have had reactions (heart problems, fainting spells etc) haven’t connected up that these are related to the jab. If I told them, they wouldn’t believe me.
My friends mom died “suddenly in her sleep” right after taking the vax
I don’t want to say it’s the vax to him, he hasn’t connected the dots yet, and he’s the one that drove her to get the vaccine herself. I think he would hate/blame himself if he put it together (he’s still mourning her death)
But I also don’t want him to be ignorant and blame something else.. or live in denial… or tell others they should get the vac bc there’s “no side effects” as he suggested to me once.
It’s tough— and especially since I feel I’m 90% sure it’s from the vax, but I could never 100% know either. I don’t think he would believe me either, and would likely be repulsed at the suggestion since he took part in giving it to her.
Feels like a lose/lose situation. Been in a lot of those recently.
Try asking him when he first noticed these health problems. Get him to pin down a month/year. Then ask him what did he do differently in the time frame before he started noticing he wasnt right. Say there has to be something you did or didnt do differently that is causing your issues. Dont mention the vax just get him thinking along these lines. He will come to his own conclusion without you ever pushing vax injury.
Then if he has questions down the road be prepared with all the info. Have it printed out. It will be more likely to be looked at than just conveying a web address. But do include the links if something strikes him as true and he wants to delve deeper or he wants to confirm sources.
The effect of the truth will be much more profound if he reaches these conclusions on his own. With a helpful but unnoticed little nudge from his buddy of course.
Yesss thank you for suggestion — that is 100% the way to go.
His mom had dimentia for 1.5 years prior, so in his head this was just a conclusion of her disease. I’ve seen a few articles linking dimentia and the vax as being a bad route (of course it is)—but it feels a bit too soon to suggest. I think he may harm himself if he thinks he was the driving force behind his own moms death… it’s terribly sad.
I HOPE over the next year the truth comes to him without me needing to. In a year, I might just throw a couple “holy ****, I don’t know if true, but did you see this article?” And let him conclude from there if all else fails.
People I know who have had reactions (heart problems, fainting spells etc) haven’t connected up that these are related to the jab. If I told them, they wouldn’t believe me.
Same. Will you ever say anything?
My friends mom died “suddenly in her sleep” right after taking the vax
I don’t want to say it’s the vax to him, he hasn’t connected the dots yet, and he’s the one that drove her to get the vaccine herself. I think he would hate/blame himself if he put it together (he’s still mourning her death)
But I also don’t want him to be ignorant and blame something else.. or live in denial… or tell others they should get the vac bc there’s “no side effects” as he suggested to me once.
It’s tough— and especially since I feel I’m 90% sure it’s from the vax, but I could never 100% know either. I don’t think he would believe me either, and would likely be repulsed at the suggestion since he took part in giving it to her.
Feels like a lose/lose situation. Been in a lot of those recently.
Try asking him when he first noticed these health problems. Get him to pin down a month/year. Then ask him what did he do differently in the time frame before he started noticing he wasnt right. Say there has to be something you did or didnt do differently that is causing your issues. Dont mention the vax just get him thinking along these lines. He will come to his own conclusion without you ever pushing vax injury.
Then if he has questions down the road be prepared with all the info. Have it printed out. It will be more likely to be looked at than just conveying a web address. But do include the links if something strikes him as true and he wants to delve deeper or he wants to confirm sources.
The effect of the truth will be much more profound if he reaches these conclusions on his own. With a helpful but unnoticed little nudge from his buddy of course.
Yesss thank you for suggestion — that is 100% the way to go.
His mom had dimentia for 1.5 years prior, so in his head this was just a conclusion of her disease. I’ve seen a few articles linking dimentia and the vax as being a bad route (of course it is)—but it feels a bit too soon to suggest. I think he may harm himself if he thinks he was the driving force behind his own moms death… it’s terribly sad.
I HOPE over the next year the truth comes to him without me needing to. In a year, I might just throw a couple “holy ****, I don’t know if true, but did you see this article?” And let him conclude from there if all else fails.
Thank you for suggestions fren