We’re Catholic and there is a woman in our church who has been obsessed with my 9 year old son since he was about 5. She is always wanting him to be involved with different events with the church, which she organizes. He’s volunteered in many plays, Bingos, and bazaars—and that’s fine. But she is ALWAYS trying to babysit him. Both sets of his grandparents live within 3 blocks of us. We don’t need a babysitter and I have told her this. She is always insisting. It creeps me out. My husband thinks it’s innocent, but I will never go against my gut.