When my husband and I go out, we like to observe the 25-30 crowd. So many of the dudes look and act effeminate, wear ultra tight pants with have love handles, and soft bodies with moobs. The ladies are usually in two camps -- the 'I want to get all of the attention in the room' version who has all of her assets up for grabs -- or, they dress and act like they walked out of a Renaissance fair. Normal seems very unusual.