Heard some lady at the grocery store patting herself on the back, wishing herself happy Father's Day. It got me thinking about this epidemic of single motherhood and all the awesome fruit its bearing for our country. Ladies, we love ya, but you're not fathers. Period. If you were, we wouldn't have these army of children wandering thebstreets w drugs and guns in our cities. They blame the fathers for not being there causing this shit, but then claim themselves as fathers. Foolish.
Disclaimer: a father who was raised by a single mother.
Father died when I was 7, moms can NEVER replace a father. Boys and girls suffer when the father isn’t in the home. Girls raised without fathers seem to be bigger targets for pedos maybe boys as well I don’t know. They don’t understand pedos will take advantage of little girls desperate for affection only a father can provide. Speaking as a woman who was molested by her friends father and having a sister who was molested by our step father. I still feel sad sometimes seeing women who have their fathers and I’m middle aged with teenage children of my own.
Wow sorry you went thru all that fren.
Thank you, however I feel like I’m a better mom because of my trials. I know how better to protect my kids and I knew I wanted to make sure any kids I had would get a stable home with a mom and dad if at all possible. Death is out of our control, but my husband and I have a strong relationship. I am very open and straightforward with my kids depending on their age and their comfort level and I just pray I can raise good kids to become good adults and good parents and protect them from all the evil out there. My daughter has a friend who has had it pretty rough. She just lost her dad a few months ago, mom works a lot among other issues. I’ve talked with the girls about my own childhood while we hang out doing fun stuff her mom can’t do and she gets sad about it. I told her I understand but because of the things I learned or rather missed out on I better appreciate this time I have with my kids and this girl. She can some day make sure to be there for her kids
Fathers can physically be there but be indifferent or bad examples too.
Agreed, we had a terrible step father for a few years. He was a pathological liar and I’m convinced he molested his adopted kids that he says died in a car crash (they weren’t dead). My mom was lonely for years, I don’t blame her for wanting to have a companion, she just chose poorly and tried to make it work. He exposed my brother to porn and molested my little sister. I’m pretty sure he had borderline personality disorder, glad he wasn’t around long. The best situation for any a child is a good mom and a good dad doing their best, but no one is perfect and all parents make mistakes.
True.