I’m a 28 year old woman who survived a party school as her college with her virginity intact.

As a self-professed nerd, I’ve never had an overwhelming sex drive. As a Christian—and an anxious person, if I’m being honest—I’ve decided to abstain until I get married, or at least engaged.

It seriously doesn’t seem that hard to keep it in your pants? I’ve never understood why it’s so difficult for people to just not have random sex. Aside from pressure from men you date, I suppose.