im glad you stuck up for your wife and yourself.

similar thing happened to my wife. she wanted to go to a rap concert, in the ghetto, and i was like hell no, and she's like what the matter? are you racist? and I'm like, not really, but i can assure you that someone else in the crowd will be... against you! and she's from a small rural town, so she's never had to deal with this kind of thing... so she went alone, and sure enough, before the show even started, a girl in the crowd grabbed wife's hair from behind, and yanked it hard. wife didn't respond. girls yanked her hair again, so wife turns and faces this girl. around this time, security shows up, and wife and girl are about to get thrown out, but the crowd turned on the girl, said the girl started it, that wife didn't do anything wrong, so security let wife stay, and threw the other girl out.

she got lucky. In my experience, wife would have got jumped by like 5 girls at the same time, then wife would have been thrown out of venue, and got beat up again outside. then robbed. and maybe even shot.