God bless your wife! I read some of those replies as well and I hoped she would encourage you to read them. I would do the same if it were my hubby. The beauty of a really great online community is that it develops it’s own personality - a “tone” if you will - that you can sense, which makes the shills that wander in stick out like a sore thumb. The core majority here are intelligent, uplifting, honest, and genuinely supportive of others in the community. I, for one, am very glad you’ve decided to stay. We appreciate and support you.