Man, to all the fundies on here - there can in fact be a happy medium between "no sex until marriage" (HEY POOR HEY POOR YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE POOR ANYMORE! JESUS IS HERE! etc) and total slut.
Anyone who wants to wait until marriage, probably hasn't had sex with a virgin. And, I will posit, everything else could be just right but if it turns out you have different ideas here, being stuck for life isn't a great situation. Sexual chemistry "working" or not is a thing just like every other aspect of a relationship.
If you are in the "had sex with one person your whole life and it's great" camp - far out, super happy for you.
You're talking mostly about an unhappy medium, as that rarely works long term. Ignorance is bliss; if you haven't been with anyone else or indulged in porn, sexual chemistry is a given in the same way that 1 > 0. When you instead go develop a basis for comparison, there's a lot higher chance you end up eventually coveting that which you don't have.
It's amazing how you talk so much about sex without mentioning children. That's the liberal brainwashing talking.
The sexual revolution of the 60s and 70s decoupled sex from procreation. Single motherhood skyrocketed afterwards because sex was free and so men were allowed to have sex commitment-free.
Free sex sounds great, but after a few generations of children raised by single mothers, you end up in 2022 where kids are tipping drag queen strippers. So be careful what you wish for.
Man, to all the fundies on here - there can in fact be a happy medium between "no sex until marriage" (HEY POOR HEY POOR YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE POOR ANYMORE! JESUS IS HERE! etc) and total slut.
Anyone who wants to wait until marriage, probably hasn't had sex with a virgin. And, I will posit, everything else could be just right but if it turns out you have different ideas here, being stuck for life isn't a great situation. Sexual chemistry "working" or not is a thing just like every other aspect of a relationship.
If you are in the "had sex with one person your whole life and it's great" camp - far out, super happy for you.
You're talking mostly about an unhappy medium, as that rarely works long term. Ignorance is bliss; if you haven't been with anyone else or indulged in porn, sexual chemistry is a given in the same way that 1 > 0. When you instead go develop a basis for comparison, there's a lot higher chance you end up eventually coveting that which you don't have.
Super happy for you.
Just to tag on to the other two great replies: Itβs funny you mention Jesus in this post- sex before marriage is mentioned in the Bibleβ¦
It's amazing how you talk so much about sex without mentioning children. That's the liberal brainwashing talking.
The sexual revolution of the 60s and 70s decoupled sex from procreation. Single motherhood skyrocketed afterwards because sex was free and so men were allowed to have sex commitment-free.
Free sex sounds great, but after a few generations of children raised by single mothers, you end up in 2022 where kids are tipping drag queen strippers. So be careful what you wish for.
Super happy for you.