Leftist women discover traditional marriage..😂🤣
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. If women give up sex so easy without commitment, then many men will choose not to commit.
Here is an honest perspective from a man. If I go on a date with a girl, 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and things turn sexual... if she gives it up so easily, I will almost always keep her in the casual box. If she gave it up so easy to me, how many other men did she give it up to so easily?
If she rejects my advances while clearly wanting to proceed, it shows she has self control. It shows she values sex more than just a physical deed. I will consider her for a long term relationship. I will gain respect for a girl who is interested in me but wants to wait. Unfortunately, this is very rare these days.
Biology isn't fair, but the science shows for women specifically that if she has had sex with more than 5 men, she is exponentially more likely to get a divorce as her count increases. Like I said, biology isn't fair that is is specific to women. Her ability to pair bond with a man has faded and she's less likely to stick with a relationship through hard times. Or she's less likely to remain faithful when another higher value man shows interest in her.
The science shows that women who can say no to sex will make better, more faithful, longer lasting wives. I highly doubt the women in this post will stick with their plan long term if they've spent all their lives doing the opposite, but it is incredibly funny that they reached this conclusion in the most round about way possible.
This is the most common sense I have heard from a man on this site. You sound like one of the rare good ones!
very rare.... lol, its practically nonexistent! As someone who shares your same philosophy when it comes to dating (I can't respect a woman as a potential life-long partner unless she demonstrates she respects herself). And I think you hit the nail on the head w.r.t. finding women that are inclined to make good on the commitment to work cooperatively through the great and the not-so-great times of a relationship.
Dating has changed tremendously though over the last 5-10 years, and these are qualities I haven't seen in some time (though woke/lib hive-mind girls are also an auto-nope for me). It would be very nice to see a return to a values/morals weighted dating pool, so I'll remain optimistic.
I read your comment the other day and started thinking about the number of women over the relative recent years who have respected themselves enough for us to have mutual interest in each other, but able to say no to my advances on the first couple dates. That number is 3 in a period of about 5 years. And I am mildly ashamed to admit there is a large sample size.
Of those 3, one became my girlfriend who was incredible and we had an amazing time together, but I moved for work and the relationship faded after that. I'm happy for her because the man she started seeing long term after me is now her husband.
One was a great girl, but I messed it up by being too unavailable, and she moved on after the second date, which she was smart to do at that specific period of my life since I was clearly not looking for something serious in that moment.
Another was also a great girl and we went on 3 or 4 dates without anything happening. She was a very conservative Russian girl and the cultural differences were a bit too much for me for reasons I won't explain now and I kind of faded out.
There were probably other girls who were good girls, but just not interested in me or me not interested in them, but my examples are of the ones there was mutual interest. Kind of sad thinking about this and only having 3 women come to mind. But that is the world we live in today, and it's a darn shame because the women who have the self control, I just have more trust and faith in. Could we be part of the problem? Maybe, but like I said in the initial comment, I believe it is in man's nature to go for it and up to the girl to reject. After all, women are the gatekeepers of sex and men the gatekeepers of commitment.
Yeah that's a good question - I mean any relationship... intimate, friendship, or otherwise obviously takes both sides. But I think in the world of me too, she-boys, a divorce-happy society, and guilty until proven innocent court system - men who are serious about finding a true partner have become more and more selective.
I know for myself, after my last long term relationship ended (shortly after Trump's election) I found the dating scene almost foreign. Alas, I only aim to be married once so not to keen on playing the Grass-is-Greener games so common today.
That's really interesting your experience with the Russian gal, I have a friend that works with a young girl from Russia and I was intrigued when he told me in many ways Russia (culturally) is more akin to times of the past in US. Obviously its not my first-hand experience, but I remember thinking at the time that maybe I need to move to Russia lol.
I have certainly become more picky as I've gotten older in regards to who I want to enter a relationship with because if I enter a relationship, the eventual goal is marriage. Unfortunately, the better I've gotten with women and the more I learn about how easy many are, my pickiness has gone even higher. I now search for respect, values, and integrity above all else for relationship. I have a girlfriend now and she checks all of these boxes, but even knowing this, we still hooked up on the 2nd date. Which concerns me.
Oh boy Russian women. Just like the US it depends if they come from a major city or a small town. The woman I mentioned is from Siberia and extremely traditional, but I've met others in non-dating contexts from Moscow and they still sleep around, at least the ones I've met. They also have pretty high expectations for men. You must meet the provider role. You're definitely paying for everything, which isn't a problem itself, but she probably won't say thank you after. They're hard to read and take a lot of time to open up, which makes sense if you go back to Communist days where nobody trusted each other because they had neighbors ratting out neighbors. Like I said, cultural differences lol.
In any case, I hope we both find the woman we're looking for and I hope we both start large amazing families. Best of luck to you, brother.