Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Men will always push for sex, it's in our nature. It's up to the women to control themselves and reject the advances and not give it up to every man who wants it.

Inversely, women will always push for commitment with a high value man they respect, it's in their nature. It's up to men to control themselves and ensure the woman is a good long term prospect and to not commit to every woman who wants it.

Movies back in the day used to depict this accurately. A woman will push for marriage. The man will say no, he has things to do. The woman will continue pushing. The man says no, he still has things to do. Then finally he decides he's ready and she'll make a good wife and he does it. Now a days western men are such incels, if a woman asks for commitment, the pussy man will say yes because he is so excited a girl wants him. Now use this same logic for women and sex.