Men and women socially are equals. This is how we were created: in Their image. Gender norms are a GUIDELINE not law. Forcing people to conform breeds rebellion. Always. People who swap typical roles should not be shamed or scorned. If God wanted us all to function the same They would have made us the same. What works in one family might not work in others.

While we can waste time pointing fingers at who's responsible for what, I believe the way forward is to think forward: let people figure out their lives for themselves and actually get out there and make the world a better place.