So grateful that I found this community which led me to finding God, because without that I dont know how I would have gotten through today.
First I found out my cat passed away, which already hurt...but then minutes after that, my grandfather ive taken care of for 12 years took his last breath and I lost him too. The only thing that kept me from shattering was knowing hes been suffering for a long time and now that suffering is over. I really wanted to numb the pain with a bottle - but i went to an AA meeting instead.
It still doesnt feel real. 😔
Edit - just want to add since several people have already said get another cat - we have other cats, 3 actually, and 1 is with me now (the brother of the one that passed actually) so getting another one isn't really what I need. But thank you for the suggestion.
I am sorry for your loss, but rest in knowing that your grandfather is in a better place. I’m sure that he’s pleased, and looking down on you with a smile on his face. Along with your cat sitting on his lap.
My husband died 12 years ago, I went out to the store to pick up some cigarettes, and when I came back, our cat ran out in front of my truck and I ran it over. This happened the same day that he died. We had to go to the vet and have the cat put down because I broke her spine. The only thing that made me feel better, was my best friend told me this…. She felt there was a disturbance in my husband‘s passing, and that he needed masquerade more than we did. Turns out she was right, his mother was responsible for his death.
I’m happy to hear that you have other animals, and family members available to you to help comfort you during this time. There’s no right or wrong way to grief, just lean into it if you need to. Jesus will give you all the love you need.!
So sorry to hear all that but thank you for sharing ❤️
Well it was a long time ago, and the Lord has healed my heart. But right now, I know that you are in pain, and missing your grandfather and your cat. I pray that the Lord will begin to heal your heart in time.
God bless you and have a great night
You as well