Learning that YOU and ONLY YOU are responsible for YOU and everything that happens to you ... is one HELLUVA lesson the later you learn it.
I'm not saying everything that happens to you is your fault. I'm saying everything that happens to you is your RESPONSIBILITY and if you didn't do due diligence or discount information because "you didn't know better" ... that's exactly what not taking responsibility looks like.
Only AFTER you accept responsibility do you gain the true ability to tell what's your fault and what's not.
If you don't take responsibility or try to shovel responsibility away by arguing what the word means ... you'll live in waters muddied by the fault of others in an eternity of hell.
To live that way is truly hell on Earth and I genuinely feel bad for them. I know I used to be there. But they MUST wake up and grab their lives if they care to live them.
Learning that YOU and ONLY YOU are responsible for YOU and everything that happens to you ... is one HELLUVA lesson the later you learn it.
I'm not saying everything that happens to you is your fault. I'm saying everything that happens to you is your RESPONSIBILITY and if you didn't do due diligence or discount information because "you didn't know better" ... that's exactly what not taking responsibility looks like.
Only AFTER you accept responsibility do you gain the true ability to tell what's your fault and what's not.
If you don't take responsibility or try to shovel responsibility away by arguing what the word means ... you'll live in waters muddied by the fault of others in an eternity of hell.
To live that way is truly hell on Earth and I genuinely feel bad for them. I know I used to be there. But they MUST wake up and grab their lives if they care to live them.