AMEN. AMEN. AMEN. And I'd like to add before I had children, that some people who had children never asked for any advice from others who had no children. Just because you may not have had children at the time or ever, doesn't mean you don't know anything. We were all children once too. And I came from a family of 8 children; myself being the fourth. Some people have no 'common sense' whatsoever.