When you ask them, give them a few days. Cognitive Dissonance takes time to sort through. Generally, the first time you say something, they will have a melt down, so just let them simmer. Then you will find that the next time, they can take a tiny spoonful more. The best is when you use their sources that contradict each other, such as Fauci and the vax. But Comey and his press release on Clinton emails and servers and not doing anything as compared to the cocktail napkin they spent hours combing Mar a Lago for…is also a good exercise in Cognative Dissonance for the Normie.