Most people understand that the brainwashing, conditioning, and abuse on everyone has been strong. Your observations are spot on, and this is why we must work together and not allow the elites to divide us (men/women). Nothing wrong with a little judgement to help evaluate the situation. It doesn't mean the men are not going to step in and save their (and other women) when needed.

Unless, of course, they determine it is not worth the trouble due to majorly lost souls consumed by evil and hatred of men. And there are many of these that must be weeded out via some judgement, so we don't waste our time trying to save the unsave-able.